Johnny Veglia: Looking Inside His Heart & Thinking Outside the Box

Amidst the holiday season, and in the spirit of giving, we find it most fitting to name Johnny Veglia our Cape Kid of the Month for December. We’re confident you will agree after reading about Johnny below.

As a 15-year-old sophomore and a theatre major at The UCTVS Academy of Performing Arts High School in Scotch Plains, New Jersey, Johnny keeps busy with practices and rehearsals. These time-consuming commitments, however, do not stop him from giving back in a way that is near and dear to his heart.

“Johnny has always loved Halloween and Disney,” explained his mother Cheryl Veglia. When he was in fifth grade, Johnny asked

her if he could turn his Scotch Plains home into a Haunted House for the Halloween season.

Johnny Veglia

Sadly, a beloved family friend, whom he called Aunt Cathy, passed away from breast cancer during the planning of his big debut. It was then that Johnny decided to ask for a suggested donation of $1.00 as admission to the Haunted House, which he chose to donate to a charity in memory of his Aunt Cathy.

Over the past five years, Johnny has raised over $5,500 for the Rutgers Cancer Society by enlisting the help of over 45 family

members, who range in age from 2-years-old to 70, and friends, who gladly dress up and play assigned roles.

 

All are amazed at the detailed preparations for the big event. Each year, Johnny creates a theme, which is carried throughout the main level and basement of his home, as well as around the entire property. Friends, neighbors, and classmates come out to walk through the heart-warming haunted house. “It is a fabulous night enjoyed by many – and all for a great cause!” shared Johnny’s aunt Michelle Blum.

Johnny Veglia

Well-deserved, Johnny was one of only four people to receive the distinguished Certificate of Congressional Recognition for “…outstanding and invaluable service to the community” for his work on the haunted house.  “It’s come full circle,” his mom stated. “Aunt Cathy introduced me to John (Cheryl’s husband), and now Johnny does the haunted house in her memory.”

In addition to the haunted house, which takes Johnny a full year to plan, he is an Alter Server at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Scotch Plains. He is also active in the Scotch Plains-Fanwood Men’s Choir, where his Tenor voice melts hearts. What’s more, he is an event coordinator for Student Government, a Leadership Convention Representative, Relay for Life team captain, and serves as his school’s Student Government Event Coordinator. Despite all of his extracurricular activities, Johnny has remained on the high honor roll list since 6th grade! His dream is to one day work for Disney as an Imagineer.

Truly Wearing the Cape, Johnny is known as a friend who always includes others. In fact, he goes out of his way to make sure everyone is invited and welcomed to all activities, so that no one ever feels left out.

What an incredible honor it is to showcase Johnny Veglia this December! We thank you, Johnny, for your exemplary kindness and for being a role model to others (in such a creative way, we might add!).

 

Nick & Bella Caramico – Cape Kids of the Month – November 2017

AMAZING Siblings with Big Hearts

Congratulations to Nick and Bella Caramico for being named our November Cape Kids of the Month! This brother and sister duo are well deserving of our award. They are shining stars in their schools, community, and family.  They embody Wear The Cape’s Mission; which is to be BETTER THAN THAT™ and be a hero!

A middle school student in Hillsborough, New Jersey, Nick wears his cape on a daily basis.  He consistently helps others, even strangers.  His mother, Cynthia, shared an example of when Nick was Wearing The Cape at the grocery store: when she turned around, she saw him helping an elderly man who was having trouble lifting his grocery bags.  At another time in the store, he picked up a bag of food and stated, “Mom, we really need to buy a few of these and give them to families that need them.” What a great Kid!

Outside of school Nick plays lacrosse, soccer, and is on two basketball teams. His dedication and hard work helped his Montgomery Flag Football team not only reach the Super bowl this year; but win! Nick’s teammates respect and admire him. They know he is always looking out for their best interests, as well as others. This is evident in his volunteer work in several children’s activities, and at a local food pantry. As well, he donates his time every year for the kidkind foundation annual holiday event; where he greets guests with that wonderfully big and warm smile.

We are not the only ones who recognize Nick’s efforts. He was honored to receive the Award for Character Excellence, also knows as the ACE Award, from his school. This award is given to students who are a fine example of the school’s six pillars of character: Trustworthiness, Respect, Responsibility, Fairness, Caring, and Citizenship.

Nick truly is an outstanding role model for all kids; but especially his younger sister, Bella, who shares that big, beautiful smile and amazing heart, with her big brother.

When Bella was asked to choose a topic for her 5th grade CCD program, she immediately chose to spotlight Wear The Cape. Her mom explained that she is so passionate about Wear The Cape’s mission that she wanted to share with her entire CCD program, which included adults and children. She worked diligently with a friend to create a perfect presentation, which included Power Point slides, pictures, and quotes of her encouraging others to “…always Wear The Cape, [and] be kind, not hurtful.”

An avid competitive dancer, Bella is graceful and kind both on and off the stage. She helps her fellow dancers through her encouragement, kind words, and positive attitude. Her love of dancing has brought much joy to her life, and her kind heart has brought much joy to ours.

We commend both Nick and Bella for their kindness, heroism, and “hearts of gold.” They are incredibly thoughtful and giving! Keep up the great work, Nick and Bella. We are so proud of you.

Unmasking Bullying

Bullying and Cyberbullying It’s October, National Anti-Bullying Awareness Month. According phys.org, a study at the University of Virginia has found a decrease in bullying, stating; “While bullying is a significant public health concern and has received considerable attention from the media and policymakers, these data suggest that things are starting to improve…” This is good news people. REALLY, really good news.

However, we still have a lot of work to do to eradicate this public epidemic. Although studies show a decrease in bullying overall, many of us are noticing an increase in the catastrophic consequences of cyberbullying; including young children taking their lives due to cyberbullying. We need to better understand this, and this needs to stop! As parents, teachers, and friends, we need to do more to help.

HERE ARE JUST A FEW SUGGESTIONS THAT MAY HELP:

  • First, stop and ask, does your child even need a device? Why? For school or transportation? If not, do away with that.
  • If the child really need needs a device, collect it at night to charge in a local spot where you have access, and check the text messages.
  • Do away with or limit the child’s social media, and again, IF you allow it, check it regularly.
  • Begin a constant dialogue with your children, asking them to share with you any problems that they may be having online or in person.
  • Be supportive of your children and of their concerns. Find the right time each day for you to listen and really BE with your child to hear him/her.
  • Above all – be a positive role model for your children. Be cautious about the comments you make or text messages you may send in their presence.
  • Read more about bullying

It is our goal at Wear the Cape to help prevent and stop bullying, in all forms, in its tracks. Will you join us on our mission?

We have created several resources for you to discuss bullying with your children, from a kindness perspective, including our children’s book, It’s Good To Be Kind and our Hero Assembly for elementary school students. For further information on how to promote kindness through these resources, please email leighann@wearthecapekids.com or click here.

In Kindness,

The Wear The Cape Team